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Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Both of you possess great sensitivity and sympathy, imagination and intuition. You can communicate and understand one another at a very deep level, which is rare and very satisfying for both of you.
Non-judgmental acceptance, tolerance, generosity, compassion, a love of beauty and peace - these are some of the positive qualities you share. You also have some less desirable potentials: passivity, hyper-sensitivity, a desire to escape rather than confront life and its challenges, and an inability to set boundaries or limits. Together you are likely to reinforce both the positive and negative potentials that both of you have.
Both of you love to be made to feel that you are very special and important, the favorite, the best! Proud and somewhat egotistical, you are sensitive to being ignored, slighted, or put in the background. You need personal recognition, appreciation, and respect very much, and you also want to be associated only with people you admire and respect.
You both have a warm, sunny disposition, and you don't want to acknowledge your own problems or weaknesses, so you generally show only your bright face to the world.
Both of you are also rather theatrical, dramatizing or exaggerating your own feelings or emotional responses. (If you like something, you ADORE it. You're not just irritated, you're ABSOLUTELY FURIOUS, etc.). This is one way that you dominate, overpower, or try to control (in a subtle way) the people closest to you.
You are both strong individuals and the obvious problem you will face together is: Who's the boss? If either or both of you are too insecure to be able to share the limelight with someone else, you will not be very happy together. On the other hand, if you are secure in your own worth, you are likely to admire one another enormously.
Both of you tend to be hot-headed, highly competitive, and driven to achieve - and these energies will no doubt play a significant role in your relationship. At your finest, you can appreciate one another's independence and assertiveness, since you each possess these qualities. However, clearly there is also the potential for a great deal of friction, animosity, and an unhealthy degree of competition and anger between the two of you. You are both learning how to direct your aggressive, active, forceful energies into positive channels, and it would be helpful if the two of you could expend a lot of physical energy together, perhaps in competitive sports or athletic activities. Otherwise, you are prone to aggravate one another, and fight a lot.